I know possibly this is not the most logical response to the tragedy that happened in the family.. but here I am with my profound grief.
Life is fragile, hanging by a delicate balance and however smart we assume we are God outsmarts us all the time.
I still can’t believe we lost him and I am not saying this because this is the politically correct thing to do but he was a nice person, a genuine, righteous and affectionate man. He loved us as his own kids.
I don’t how the ones left behind will cope with this, but I shudder to think of the days ahead. Mausi deserves more from life.
Trivial things are really trivial and should have no place in one’s mind-space. Life is too short for grudges, if you love someone and you are convinced that s/he loves you back that is all that matters. Finally life to too short to crib, grudge or repent. I think I knew all of this but today I have really learnt it.
God, give mausi the strength to cope with this. Help her become what he would have wanted her to become.. help her smile again.
It was so sudden no time for good byes, no time to say how much we cared for him and appreciated him. I now know that people who truly matter need to know this all the time. There is no such thing as too much love.
Just wanted to let you know through this blog how much I love you, thank you for bringing happiness in all our lives. I will miss you.